Sunday, April 22, 2007
triangle of change
What I was feeling in a reverse dingy sort of way, earlier this evening...Keeping silent it seems is never correct. For when you keep silet, you could be consenting to alot of things which you didnt do nor did you agree to. Keeping quiet just allows for words, plety of them, to be stacked neatly in rows into the mouth en route to the throat. That is when one is keeping silet.
Saying what you think in tempremental fashion is no different. Its just doubles the trouble of keeping silent. Im sure many readers would agree to this conclusion of mine. Thats blowing your lid some say.
What about answering a question, in a very calm, well mannered & dare I say "asnwering the question" type of way ?? For when one tries to answer the question, one should try to derive all possibilites, and to get to that, one has to gather as many facts as possible. My view is that the main question should be answered first, and any repeat topics that is consistently brought up would be reiterated. Well what seems a very simple question always seems to get out of hand.
For the upteenth time, a pause when someone is giving their opinion does not necessarily equate into a question. & though people may let you explain or rationalise your answer/opinion, it does not generaly mean that they are ready to listen...let alone accept what ever that was painlessly thought and put into effort in answering. For other people's opinion will always be their own opinion and they will not hesitate to chide aside any remarks which they frown upon and not agree upon.
How the winds of change come about in 1 simple lazy Sunday.
"A tear from my eye...for they are the hardest to please."Bak pepatah melayu,
"cakap salah, tak cakap pun salah"I guess the age old phrase is true. & it IS there for a reason. Lets just stick to it for the time being....or
FOREVER yahhh.
"For if you got nothing good to say, it is better to say nothing at all."
